Archive for April, 2010

Husbands @ Home

Margaret Corbin

Image of Margaret Corbin, the first woman paid by the US for military service

As a follow-up to our Military Wives post, we thought we’d share a handful of online resources for those husbands of women in the military. However, online support for the male military spouse is as rare as the spouse himself.

Where can a man turn for support when his wife is deployed overseas or during training? The challenges of being a single parent, regardless of your gender, are well documented. Those weeks and months can stress a family where the wife goes and husband stays as much as any traditional family, but support is much harder to come by.

There is hope! Social networks and blogs are emerging as the place where military husbands can find this support, and share their experiences. Here they are now:

MilHusbands – Terrific blog run by two dedicated military husbands. Visit the “The Husband’s Club” forum to share your experiences.

Military Husbands – A branch of MilitaryWives for husbands-only with a wide variety of links and resources.

Coffee & Diapers – A Navy husband who writes about being a male military spouse and father.

Naval Gazing – “The perspective of a military family . . . the narcissism of a blog” The story of a military family living in Singapore.

The Life and Times of a Navy Husband – Thomas Litchford, a columnist for Military Spouse magazine, writes about his experience as a Navy husband, father, and author.

If you’re the husband of a woman in the military (deployed or otherwise), write about your experiences below! What’s been the hardest on you? How have you coped when your wife is deployed overseas? What’s your biggest line of support?

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SPOTLIGHT: Vets Prevail

Vets Prevail

For our next Spotlight, where we focus on only the best military resiliency, health, and support websites, we are taking an in-depth look at “Vets Prevail”

Vets Prevail is a veteran-owned and operated company and website with an active virtual community, advanced mental health tools, and online training for our Nation’s returning veterans. They “get it” and are committed to providing men and women with what they need to transition back into civilian life.

The community itself features insightful blog posts, forum threads, multimedia and of course, real veterans! After signing up, you are invited to connect with others who’ve had similar experiences or facing the same challenges. Having a network of friends who understand what you are going through is a crucial part of the shift from military service.

That is only a part of the Vets Prevail experience, however. They offer a screening tool (sound familiar?) that will tailor the website’s resources to your individual needs. It’s called “MyPrevail” and it lets you customize the site to best serve you. A truly excellent tool.

AND, if you served for more than 180 days of active-duty service in the United States military then you qualify to receive online training through Vets Prevail. Their training courses are online, allowing you to anonymously build your resiliency in the privacy of your own home. Upon completion, you get a prestigious Prevail medal for your effort!

This is only the tip of the iceberg. There simply is not enough room here to discuss all the aspects of Vets Prevail that we love. Simply put, if you are in the reintegration process, or know someone who is or will be soon, then check out Vets Prevail!

Still not convinced? Check out this video:

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Leave a comment and tell us about your experience with Vets Prevail!

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